Do you wish your relationship was better? More joyful, passionate, connected?
Is it hard to talk to your partner about the relationship? Does it seem that when you bring up problems or tell them how you feel, they get defensive? They either clam up or an argument starts?
You're then left feeling alone, frustrated, angry and upset. And probably judgmental of your partner.
You're not alone - this is so common.
Most people want to make their relationship work but just don't know how. We're not taught about relationships at school and for many of us our parents didn't model helpful strategies. Even basic communication techniques, like active listening, are often misunderstood.
You probably know things could be better in your relationship. You want to feel loved and respected and connected with your partner. But you also know if something doesn't change, there's a real possibility your relationship will end.
I know what it's like. I've been married to my husband for over 25 years and I know it's so easy to fall into old patterns and habits and to forget how to genuinely connect with each other.
I also realise each relationship is unique, and each person has a life history they bring to the relationship, which affects the issues that arise.
But there are some basic steps everyone can take, no matter what the problems are in a relationship.
In my work as a teacher and facilitator of the personal growth and relationship system Voice Dialogue, I've worked with many people on their relationship and on my own relationship.
I wrote this little ebook to share the simplest steps that anyone can use to turn a relationship around.
The three techniques in this 'remedy' are the easiest way to kick-start a healing process in a relationship. They'll revitalise your connection with your partner almost instantly.
All three techniques are time-honoured methods that work. They are sometimes suggested by relationship therapists - the problem is, many people don't know how to do them, and are often afraid to ask.
These techniques are so simple you don't need any special skills or knowledge. And I explain them step-by-step.
A huge bonus is you don't even need to tell your partner you are doing anything.
So why not give them a try? You can't lose and chances are your relationship will benefit.
"Excellent read! Highly recommended. As a marriage and relationship counselor, I always enjoy reading books on the subjects of relationships and communication. This is a wonderful, easy-to-read and follow book that goes very fast. It basically teaches you skills of communication and psychology that are relationship 'musts'. I highly recommend this book!" Maggie Westbrook
I really enjoyed the advice given in this book. Very easy read and great advice. Can’t go wrong with this one!55
This is a very helpful book with a lot of valuable information to boost your relationship!55
Terrible. Would give it 0 stars if i could. You could have simplified this whole book down to one page with bullet-points and it would have gotten the point across better. Lot of beating around the bush. I guess this is what happens when anyone is allowed to write a book 😂😂😂 DONT WASTE YOUR TIME15
I finished this book in one day. Will definitely try the techniques advised on this book. Hope it helps55